New Moon in Gemini - Say Something I'm Giving Up on You

The challenging aspect is a Mutable T square to Saturn, Jupiter and Neptune.

Let’s see how you can use these aspects to your advantage.

The OPPOSITION TO SATURN is asking you to concentrate your attention in your relationships. When you are with someone, give them your full focus. Try to break the habit of thinking about something else, a meeting you need to go to, an email you need to write etc, but instead, even if it’s just for a half hour, give that person ALL of you.

You’ll be surprised at how much this can improve your relationships.

Saturn in Sagittarius is reminding you to share what is important to you, and Venus in Gemini is asking you to be mindful of speaking in a loving way.

All too often we walk away from a relationship without ever speaking what is in our heart. Can you make it a daily habit to express something verbally to one new person?

Many relationships are ended by text or email without the courtesy of a phone call or better still, meeting in person. This New Moon is giving you a new opportunity to bring a more personal and loving touch to your relationships.

I make it my business to tell my friends regularly: I love you, I am so grateful to have you in my life, I loved our chat today, etc. The opposition is asking you to become aware of how you are seeing your relationships. What are your typical behaviour patterns, practice focusing on what IS working rather than what isn’t and watch your relationships will blossom and grow.  

 

The SQUARE TO JUPITER may show you that perhaps you aren’t really listening to the people in your life, or you may feel as though you aren’t being heard. The key, again, is to make sure that you REALLY LISTEN and don’t jump to conclusions before you have truly heard the other person.
Often we are ready with our comments and we butt in far too soon, giving the person a feeling of being rushed or just not valued, and this creates tension and disharmony in relationships.

With all these mutable planets, this is an amazing time for great change that can happen in the twinkling of an eye. If you are prepared to be flexible and to speak from your heart, you can transform your life completely during 2016.

With a strong focus on Gemini and Sagittarius, you are being encouraged to examine your thinking patterns. When you send a text or an email, are you sending it with a thought of love? Your intentions create the kinds of results you experience. Why not try this for a month and see what effect it has on your relationships? 

This New Moon reminds me of the song: Say Something I’m Giving up on You. My friend told me a very sad story of loving a man so very much when she was in her twenties and she never told him she loved him. She thought he had a girlfriend and she held it in for many decades. They recently reconnected and she did finally tell him and he asked her – why didn’t you tell me then? That could have changed everything because I loved you too but I was afraid of telling you because your dad was my boss. It turned out that he didn’t have a girlfriend at the time either.

All those years, and the love was unexpressed. To whom could you say ‘I love you,’ so that it doesn’t stagnate inside.

Sometimes it involves a great risk. For me, it felt like a huge risk to tell you about the channelling, but I did it anyway. I’d like to say a VERY BIG THANK YOU to so many of you who emailed me with supportive and encouraging feedback. Your encouragement helps me to keep going and to keep on opening up. I would still do it anyway, but knowing that so many of you are by my side really does help!!