March
Capricorn March 2016
Aquarius March 2016
Pisces March 2016
Total Solar Eclipse in Pisces March 20th 2015
On March 20th, the New Moon To
tal Solar Eclipse at 29 degrees Pisces marks the end of an era and the beginning of a new one. Endings at this time are usually permanent with no going back.
tal Solar Eclipse at 29 degrees Pisces marks the end of an era and the beginning of a new one. Endings at this time are usually permanent with no going back. Allow the old to pass away so that you can start fresh, because just 13 hours later, the Sun goes into Aries and the Spring Equinox begins.
Pisces rules compassion and caring for others: putting yourself into another person’s shoes.
Another burning learning from the break-up of the relationship has shown me that it is important not to depend on one person for most of your love, attention and care. I trusted this person with my heart and soul and I because I put so much effort and focus into the relationship, I had not cultivated any other really deep relationships over the years.
In retrospect, this is a fatal error. At the time of the separation, I felt I had no one else I could talk to.
In the end, I am extremely grateful for an organisation that by its very name is Piscean: the Samaritans.
One night, on the very darkest of days, I spoke to the most wonderful man, Stuart, who simply listened and who helped me to find peace.
His love, his compassion and his caring came through loud and clear and from that night onward began the start of my healing process.
ANOTHER BURNING LEARNING from the relationship 
break up: know when it’s time to let go. Know when something is past its sell-by date. Don’t let something fester until it becomes so huge that you have to cut someone dead.
And now, as I try to close up all the entanglements I still have with this person: financial, business, personal…….I know it’s important to let it go. Not to hold on. Not to try to have a different result. To know that we each need to be free.
ANOTHER GREAT PERSPECTIVE shared by one of you: the 3D relationship is over, but the soul connection is always there. That is so very soothing. As well as a nice hot relaxing bath!
Pisces is all about surrender. When I think of Pisces, I think of BEING. Not doing, but being.
During this Total Eclipse in Pisces, allow yourself to be, to relax, to kick back and to accept your life exactly as it is. And know that just a few hours later, you can start taking action.
With the Lunar Eclipse on April 4th, the course of action you set now will be in effect until the next eclipse season in September. I expect to see some profound changes in the world during August, September and October.
Where does it fall in your chart?
For me, it’s in my 10th house of career. I am starting out on a new direction which is to be more public, bringing astrology out in a very personal way to you. Some of you have already asked me for specific dates because you plan to fly into London from different parts of the world. For those of you who are unable to travel, I’ll be offering webinars so that you too can tune in from overseas.
Thank you to so many of you for your outpouring of love and concern. Many of you shared your own stories and experiences, I’ve been offered healing sessions, massages, you’ve sent healing thoughts, energies, prayers, inspirational stories and quotes, music, and even a few jokes which definitely cheered me up.
Within a few days I started to feel much better and I am sure that all your ehugs and positive energies made a huge difference.
March Astrology
On March 16th, we have the final 7th exact square between Uranus and Pluto. Many of you will be breathing a huge sigh of relief now that this difficult aspect is beginning to recede. Don’t drop your guard completely as it will still be in effect for up to another three years
, but its impact is waning.
, but its impact is waning.
What have you learned? Uranus wants you to wake up and to claim your individuality. No one in this world is like you. Your astrology chart shows your unique fingerprint, your gifts, talents, challenges and opportunities. Wherever this Pluto Uranus square falls in your chart, shows the life areas where you need to break out, be willing to change and to reinvent yourself.
For me, as a Cardinal Sign, it’s been hitting my relationships, I’ve moved country four times, and I’ve had a few health wobbles thrown into the mix.
The biggest shock came just a few weeks ago when a 20 year old deep relationship came to a sudden end.
Did someone ever finish with you by email or by text?
After cringing about hearing it happen to so many other people, that’s exactly what happened to me.
Someone with whom I had a 20 year relationship, without warning, sent me an email ending our connection.
After spending a week reeling in shock, I decided to sit down and analyze what happened to see if there were any gems of wisdom I could glean from it.
This is a relationship that I had put my heart and my soul into. This is someone for whom I would have laid my life down. This is someone that I had always held in the highest esteem and I wanted only the best for. I never anticipated that there could be anything at all we couldn’t discuss and get through. How wrong I was.
Looking back on the relationship, I’m trying to see whether there are any lessons can be learned from this painful experience. Two come to mind immediately:
This is a person who, over the years, I had seen cut other relationships dead. Even their very best friend of many decades was cut dead. So I had seen this behaviour, but I chose to ignore it and to trust (in my ignorance and illusion), that it would never happen to me. We even had the discussion several times and I was assured that we would always stay loving and connected this lifetime.
I also made the egregious mistake of mixing business and personal. If you have a business relationship with someone, generally, it is best to keep it that way and not
to introduce a personal element into the relationship. The minute you do that, you make yourself vulnerable to different expectations that may be used against you in the future. It takes longer to heal because although the personal side of the relationship may be over, you may still have to deal with the business side which can go on for months or even years and every time you have contact with that person, the old wounds open up again.
Two huge lessons.
If someone gossips about other people, you can be sure that eventually they will gossip about you. If you see vengeful behaviour in a person, make no mistake that that behaviour might be directed at you one day. If someone has been repeatedly unfaithful in the past, don’t delude yourself into thinking that they will be forever loyal to you.
Now that a little time has elapsed, I am able to look back on the relationship and I am extremely grateful for the many wonderful times that we had and for the love that we shared. I gained so much and I learned a great deal.
What could I have done differently?
I truly don’t know. I have asked myself that question so many times and whilst I know I’m certainly not perfect, I do think I deserved the courtesy of a phone call rather than an email.
But sometimes in life, there are no warnings. Sometimes there are no signs, or if there are, we choose not to see them.
But I can truly say, that with this relationship, I gave it my all so there are no regrets.
The eclipse season is upon us. On March 20th there is a Super New Moon Solar Eclipse at the last degree of Pisces.
It’s a time of tying up loose ends, allowing old things to pass away so that you can start fresh. Just 13 hours later, the Sun goes into Aries and the Spring Equinox begins (autumn in the southern hemisphere). This energy helps you to make changes and to move forward with anything that has been stuck for a while.
Sometimes our greatest upheavals are our greatest gifts. I am determined to turn these various challenges into opportunities. Over the weeks and months ahead, I’ll keep sharing my insights and personal experiences with you.
Now that I am in the UK, I am really looking forward to meeting many of you in person at my forthcoming astrology seminars and workshops.
Thanking you all for your care and your concern,
I appreciate each and every one of you,
With love from ‘Good Olde England’,
Barbara