Thank you Kathy for your wise words. You are quite right. The worst happened and it can only get better from here. Warmest wishes, Barbara
Regarding the loss of a relationship, I thought I was reading about me and a friend of over 30 years. The friendship isn’t over but it took a really hard hit. Some of the red flags you saw and ignored were the same ones I saw over the years. The shock is that we have always talked about being able to discuss issues with respect for each others’ position but that didn’t happen. She went out of her way to insult me and brought up things that happened years ago that I thought we had dealt with and put behind us. We are still talking but I feel very differently toward her. This happened at the beginning of February.
Dear Saundra, I am so sorry to hear about your relationship. As you say, there are signs and warnings, but we don’t often want to see them at the time. I am sending you positive thoughts and energy, take care.
Im so sorry to hear what you been thru the pass couple months. Stay stong, Just remember things happen for a reason , always for a good reason . Believe me I been thru that .